You are joining a Forum for the first time and are excited to learn that one or more other members have significant Forum experience, perhaps in YPO or another organization.
Of course, it can be great for a Forum to benefit from the wisdom that comes from previous experience, but proceed carefully. Sometimes the more experienced member may assume that what worked before will transfer automatically to his or her new forum.
The more experienced member might ask:
– My old Forum was happy with a more “flexible” approach, but is my new group also ready to deviate from “standard” process?
– Does my new group need more time, whether length of meeting, or length of individual segments? Do I need to be more patient?
– How can I truly model best practice, being the first to share, withholding judgment, raising issues or concerns in the most constructive manner?
And newer members can consider:
– Has the more experienced member fully listened to the concerns and questions raised by the novices?
– Are we comfortable introducing a more complex or challenging protocol, or do we still need to learn the basics?
– Can we leverage the “expert” more effectively, not by listening to theory, but by asking him/her to demonstrate and lead some meeting elements?